Tag Archives: identity

Speech and The Two Truths

John 21:25 ESV: “Now there are also many other things that Jesus did. Were every one of them to be written, I suppose that the world itself could not contain the books that would be written.”

1 John 3:18 ESV: “Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.”

Ephesians 4:29 ASV: “Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for edifying as the need may be, that it may give grace to them that hear.”

In recent years, I have increasingly begun to value the practical instruction Paul gives in his Biblical letters; instruction about how those who are Christ’s are to live and relate to others.  While I still value and enjoy the deep spiritual revelations Paul shared, I think it is wise to be wary of intellectual assent without real-life application.  Let’s not forget that the same Paul who proclaimed profoundly deep revelation also said things like: “If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but don’t have love, I am nothing,”1 and “Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.”2 . It is easy to over-value knowledge and under-value applied love, because knowledge in itself demands no change, while love is always accompanied by humility and sacrifice (and glory)!  A question I’m asking myself is this: do I really “know” a Truth if it is not being expressed in the way I conduct myself in the world and relate to others?  

Ephesians 4:29, quoted above, is an example of one such practical instruction.  While it sounds like an ancient version of the modern saying: “if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all,” it is actually much deeper than that.  To understand more fully what Paul was saying, let’s start by looking at the definition of some of the Greek words that this verse was translated from:


 Greek transliteration: “sapros.”

1. rotten, putrefied
2. corrupted by one and no longer fit for use, worn out
3. of poor quality, bad, unfit for use, worthless

-Sapros seems to roughly mean: “worn out, unfit, useless.”


– Greek transliteration: “oikodome.”

– Definition:
1. (the act of) building, building up
2. metaph. edifying, edification
a. the act of one who promotes another’s growth in Christian wisdom, piety, happiness, holiness
3. a building (i.e. the thing built, edifice)

“Edifying” seems to be a good translation of oikodome, which seems to mean “to build up, to strengthen.”


-Greek transliteration: “charis.”

– Definition:
1. grace
a. that which affords joy, pleasure, delight, sweetness, charm, loveliness: grace of speech
2. good will, loving-kindness, favour
a. of the merciful kindness by which God, exerting his holy influence upon souls, turns them to christ, keeps, strengthens, increases them in Christian faith, knowledge, affection, and kindles them to the exercise of the Christian virtues
3. what is due to grace
a. the spiritual condition of one governed by the power of divine grace
b. the token or proof of grace, benefit
1. a gift of grace
2. benefit, bounty
4. thanks, (for benefits, services, favours), recompense, reward

Charis is a harder word to pin down, as it describes something divine.  If I had to define grace, I would say it is “the influence of the divine.”  When a human heart is influenced by grace/the divine, it will always, at least in some way, change the way one lives and relates to others.

With these things in mind, here is what I think Paul essentially meant in Ephesians 4:29: 

Be very careful not to say anything that is spiritually or otherwise useless or harmful to the hearer.  Instead, as a child of God, what comes out of your mouth should be only things which give Life – things which are of the Truth and are helpful and useful in building up the hearer into a realization and manifestation of their identity as a son of God and a member of Christ’s body.  In so doing, you are literally acting as Christ – as a minister of God’s divine grace and Life and peace to that person – instead of a minister of self-awareness, death and condemnation.  

A friend of mine once pointed out that there is a difference between things that are true, and Truth itself.  Things that are true, also known as “facts,” are things which deal with the natural realm.  Statements like “I feel sad,” or “the sky is blue” are in the realm of the “true.”  However, Truth, with a capital T, is deeper, being exclusively reserved for the realm of the divine.  Truth cannot be changed by what is “true” or by “facts.”   Truth has to do with that which is part of the fabric of creation, of God’s nature Himself.  Statements such as “you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God,”3 like “one died for all, therefore all died,” like “(Jesus) is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not for ours only, but also for the whole world,” are in the realm of Truth.  Truth has to do with the heart and will of God for mankind, which was most clearly demonstrated in the life and teachings of Jesus Christ.  We don’t need to ignore facts, but we cannot let facts (truth) become more real to us than Truth.

What I’m saying, and I believe much of what Paul was saying, is that those who are Christ’s MUST speak and call to the divine within each person, speaking the Truth of their identity and being as sons.  This is what it means to speak things that edify, instead of things that corrupt.  Pointing out sin, as many Christians have erroneously taken it upon themselves to do, only INCREASES guilt, shame, and condemnation in the world – it is literally anti-christ to act as a law-giver and bring guilt.  It may be “true” that men are sinners, but it’s NOT Truth.  

Finally, the member’s of Christ’s body cannot just “proclaim” Truth, we must embody it.  IF and when we “see” Christ as our life, as the life of the world, we must let this truth permeate all of our being.  While this is certainly a lot deeper than merely “say nice things,” it includes that!  A better way of thinking about it is not to “be nice,” but to be Truthful and Edifying, building our world and it’s people into their identity as sons, rather than reinforcing a false identity as sinners, which just creates more sin and death (which scripture clearly says was the whole purpose of the law)!  Amen.  


  1. 1 Corinthians 13:2 WEB
  2. 1 Corinthians 8:1 WEB
  3. Colossians 3:3
  4. 2 Corinthians 5:14
  5. 1 John 2:2
Leave a comment

Posted by on August 18, 2017 in Uncategorized


Tags: , , , , ,

We ARE It (Without Hands pt. 1)

I’ve written many times about the fact that in Christ/Spirit, we have died and risen into new life.  In Colossians 2:11-13 (ESV), Paul uses the illustration of physical circumcision to make this same point:

“In him also you were circumcised with a circumcision made without hands, by putting off the body of the flesh, by the circumcision of Christ, having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through faith in the powerful working of God, who raised him from the dead. And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses…” 

There are several important things Paul states about this spiritual circumcision. First, it only exists “in him,” meaning in Christ/Spirit.  It’s not something that is seen in the physical body or felt with physical senses.  Second, it was done “without hands,” meaning that man had no part in it and cannot alter it.  Third, this circumcision didn’t cut off a foreskin, but the entire “body of the flesh.”  By doing this, God did what man couldn’t (and still can’t) – end the flesh. As God sees, in the Spirit, EVERYTHING which has been birthed from the “seed” of man is condemned, dead, taken away.  Fourth, Paul says God did this while men were dead in trespasses and (spiritual) uncircumcision.  We didn’t “earn” this, it was done in God’s timing and by His decision.  Paul says by cutting off the flesh, God was forgiving all trespasses and uniting men with Christ, making them alive TOGETHER with him. Needless to say, a radical change has taken place!  This change, for those with eyes to see, is not in the physical world, and not in the darkness within or outside of us.  Those things remain dead.  This change is in the Spirit, which then alters our perception of and relationship to everything, and which ultimately will consume all that is not in accordance with it!  

In a recent post, I mentioned some questions I wanted to address in light of these things.  Here are a few of these:

1. How should we relate to other people?  

-I agree with Paul, who in 2 Corinthians 5:16 wrote believers are to “know no man after the flesh.”  Knowing that in the light of the new covenant, all flesh has been cut off and put away, and all men reconciled to God, we will not relate to people (positively or negatively) based off what is dead and cut off.  It’s unnatural and often very difficult to walk this way, but I think the term for it is LOVE.  For example, In 2 Corinthians 5:14, Paul wrote: “…the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded (recognized) this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died…”  In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul also famously wrote that love keeps no record of wrongs, is longsuffering and kind and never quits.  I believe this is because love is based on the eternal, accomplished fact that Christ died for all, as all, reconciling all men to God, who is no longer counting sins against anyone. 


2. What should our relationship be to the world? (I define “world” not as planet earth, but as the systems and values that have been founded and established by man on the earth).  

Again, scripture answers this quite clearly:  

  • “…the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.”  -Galatians 6:14

  • “…all that is in the world–the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions–is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.” -1 John 2:16-17 ESV

Recognizing the cross of Christ was our cross too, and that his resurrection was our resurrection too, we will not make any firm attachments to anything still founded on the old creation, nor will we let its values or deceitful desires enter our hearts.

3. What is our relationship to religion?  

-We realize that God is satisfied in His son, and places no value on anything except an increase of His spirit.  In the new creation, there is no benefit (nor intrinsic harm) in any outward observances of any kind.  The only obligation we have is to love one-another.  Seeing the mind and hand of natural man underlying all forms of religion, and knowing natural man is spiritually dead, we simply leave religion be, calling men to come out of it as the Spirit reveals the new creation within them.  We then follow the Spirit in freedom and Life, outside of pretense and ritual.

4. What do we make of it when we still “sin?,” if we have died and been raised with Christ?  

– First, let us remember, according to scripture, Jesus became sin on our behalf, took away the sin of the world, and God is no longer reckoning sin against anyone.  So while sin exists (in a sense), it is, in the final analysis, a moot point, a defeated foe, a nullified issue, and one that we would be much better off not worrying about at all.

Assuming this is true and we are reckoned sinless and have been raised to new life in Christ, it is still the case that the MANIFESTATION of this reality is not instant or painless.  We remain human, and scripture gives many examples of carnal behavior even among the early church.  Even when we genuinely are seeking the Kingdom, it often takes time for us to let go of habits and attachments that were formed in darkness, especially those deeply-rooted issues which often develop from traumatic experiences and subconcious lies.  It also often takes time to unlearn and undo the fear-based, self-focused way of relating to God many of us were raised under.  And because some of these things remain, sometimes old behaviors/habits persist for a time, or temporarily return.    

But, the key thing is, having died with Christ, we know these things are not “us.”  As Paul wrote in Romans 7, it was not he (Christ, his true identity) that sinned, but the vestiges of sin (the old man/Adam) that remained within him.  Knowing Christ alone is alive, he sought and suffered to see that truth become the manifest reality of his existence.  Knowing any old, sinful ways are not “us” and are not being held against us, we can avoid the two deadly errors: either thinking we “have it” and becoming proud, or thinking we “don’t have it” and becoming discouraged and fearful.  We don’t “have it” or “not have it.”  We ARE it!   It’s just a matter of revelation, refining, and manifestation.  

Here’s what I mean by “we are it.”  A few scriptures speak of purification or refining, which is a process that identifies and removes foreign material so only the valued substance remains.  In the same sense, the Spirit isn’t working to make us something new or better, but simply to identify and consume what ISN’T our true and valuable nature – Christ/Spirit/love.  As we yield to the Spirit’s gentle work, painful as it may be, the falsehoods and impurities are removed, making us become MANIFESTLY a new creation in the process.  It may not look like the ideal person religion has presented, but more like Jesus.


Father, renew our minds and hearts to the reality of the new creation.  Let us always remember that in the end, the “hands” of man are useless.  May Christ, our life, be manifested, unhindered by our own efforts or misunderstandings.   Thank you that you removed sin and are not dealing with us accordingly.  May we be the same, for ourselves and others, that fear might diminish, and love and wisdom grow.  Amen.

1 Comment

Posted by on April 6, 2017 in Uncategorized


Tags: , , ,

You Died


If then you were raised together with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated on the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, our life, is revealed, then you will also be revealed with him in glory. (Col 3:1-4 WEB (R))

Would you be surprised to learn that you’re dead?  It’s true, and scripture declares it clearly and repeatedly.  We can believe it, even before we understand it.  The verses below lead to this startling though emphatic conclusion:  we died with Christ, and are therefore dead right now.  Confused?  Keep reading!  Each verse states our death with Christ in the past-tense, meaning it has already occurred and cannot be changed.  We don’t have to put ourselves to death – we already died!  And if we died, that means what we often call ou

  • Romans 6:4: “We were buried therefore with him through baptism to death…”
  • 2 Corinthians 5:14: “…we judge thus, that one died for all, therefore all died.”
  • Galatians 2:20: “I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I that live, but Christ living in me.”
  • Colossians 2:20: “If you died with Christ from the elements of the world, why…”
  • Colossians 3:3: “For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.”
  • 2 Timothy 2:11: “This saying is faithful: ‘For if we died with him, we will also live with him.’

Let’s see if we can grasp these two verses; Colossians 3:3-4, which say: “For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When (literally: “whenever”) Christ, our life, is revealed, then you will also be revealed with him in glory.”

Most of us have missed or ignored the “you died” part, and been taught to think these verses somehow mean our “true” life will begin when we die, or when Jesus returns from heaven at the end of the world.  But that’s not what this is saying at all.  This says our death has already happened and our life being revealed with Christ is a reality now.  For example, in Galatians 2:20, Paul says he had died and Christ was “living in him at that moment.  A better translation of Colossians 3:4 is: “Any time Christ, which is our life, is made apparent, our life will be made apparent with him in glory.”  In a nutshell, this says that a great change has taken place, that “we” died and Christ is our identity.  Where and what Christ is, is where and what we are.

So how did we die?  What does that mean?  Whether we see the full expression of this or not, Jesus’ death was the death of all men (see 2 Corinthians 5:14 above), ending Adam’s reign in man and on earth, and his resurrection was the beginning of Christ’s.  As Paul wrote, Jesus was the “last Adam and the “second man.”8  Just like Adam was once the identity and life of all men, Christ is now the identity and life of all men, if they will just see and accept it.  I believe it is precisely because Christ is our life and identity that scripture says things like: we are eternally perfect, free from condemnation, beloved, accepted, complete, unable to sin, at rest, free from law, desiring to do good, full of love and peace, anointed, etc. These things are true of Christ, not of our old nature (Adam).  To begin to walk in their reality, we have to renew our mind to who and what we truly are, and put off the old things.

That brings me to another very important point: while what we might call our “old nature” (referred to as the flesh, Adam’s nature, the sinful nature, the carnal nature, the old man, the natural man, the human soul, the false self, the carnal mind, etc.) is dead, it isn’t “gone.”  The New Testament often speaks of “death” in a spiritual sense, where “dead” means condemned, without life, irrelevant, obsolete, thrown away.  Because of this, God has no recognition or dealings with our dead nature at all, and neither should we.1  Self-awareness is spiritually lethal.  God doesn’t hold the badness of our dead nature against us, nor does He reward us for its goodness!  If something is dead/obsolete, it is simply put away and forgotten.  All that matters is the increase of Christ in and through us.  The mind of Christ eats from the tree of life, but our natural/Adamic mind continually eats from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, remaining carnal and dead.  It can’t be improved or changed; it must be totally shunned and left in desolation.  If we don’t put off the old, we can and will continue to walk in death – Adam’s nature.  The most dangerous thing of all is to remain in death, but call it life.  Religion is full of that – labeling dead things as spiritual or divine.  It’s a terrible deception.

Let me give an imperfect and inadequate illustration, though hopefully still a helpful one.  Let’s say you are hired by a kind, generous, wealthy landowner to mow a large plot of land, mowing sections of it every day.  On your first day, you arrive with your own mower, which has been handed down for generations in your family, which looks like this.  Although this mower is slow, difficult, dirty, and inefficient, it’s all you’ve ever known, so you just make do. However, there is a mowing manual that describes what the landowner desires this plot to look like, as well as some of the wonderful enjoyment and excellent results which other people have had mowing similar plots owned by this wealthy landowner.  To your dismay, no matter how hard you try, how badly you want to, or how much you sharpen and oil your mower, you find mowing to be difficult, and are consistently unable to measure up to all the manual’s descriptions.  This causes discouragement and even fear and worry over the landowner’s disappointment.   You cope by reassuring yourself that the landowner is merciful, and you frequently send Him letters thanking him for His mercy and asking him to forgive your poor results and mistakesDespite that, you wish you could do better. One day, someone tells you that there is an unlocked barn nearby on the property with a seemingly endless supply of these, which the landowner purchased, expecting and hoping His mowers will use it.  You are so shocked and amazed, that at first you can barely believe it.  Almost everyone you know uses the same old style of mower you do, and some of them have seemed happy to do so for decades. Quite a few seem proud of how hard they work and how much they sacrifice to mow their plot with their old mower. You realize, however, that these people don’t really understand what’s in the manual and how far short they are really coming to the landowner’s desires. In any event, when you realize the free and permanent gift of the new mower is true, it dawns on you that this your family’s mower was obsolete (“dead”) all along, and that no one could truly have followed the manual while using it.  When you realize the landowner understood this, and wasn’t upset at you for getting bad results with a “dead” mower, your view of Him changes. He wasn’t expecting the impossible and he wasn’t angry with you for falling shortYou’re even a bit embarrassed by all the letters you sent him, apologizing for things He wasn’t upset about in the first place. The Landowner was mostly just waiting for you to begin using the second mower, which he freely provided.  You begin learning and using the second mower while unlearning the habits and expectations you had formed while using the first. You find your results and enjoyment begin to match what is written in the manual, and are excited to honor the landowner by using His gift and beautifying His land.

Admittedly, this illustration falls short in several ways, one of which is that God doesn’t “give” us Christ, but placed us in him!  But I still think it’s helpful.  As is probably obvious: the landowner = God the Father, plot of ground = our time on earth, first mower = old/natural/carnal/Adamic nature, manual = Bible, letters to landowner = prayers, second mower = nature of Christ in us, other mowers = fellow believers.   Now, in this scenario, why would someone ever continue to use the first mower?  I can think of a few reasons.  Maybe they don’t realize it is available, or don’t believe it.  Maybe they don’t know how to use the new mower, so they get discouraged or believe it really doesn’t work.  Maybe they don’t know how to keep gas in it, so they do well only for a while.  Maybe the high standards described in the manual are so intimidating, it’s easier to stay limited by using the first mower.  Maybe they are so familiar and comfortable with the first mower that it’s scary to change, or maybe because everyone they know still uses the first mower, changing would cause tension or persecution and so it’s easier to just keep going the way they always have.

The ramifications of our identity as Christ are both exciting and sobering.  If it is true, then our call and potential are much higher than if we were truly just “saved sinners.”  The appropriate results using an 1800’s push mower are far different from those using a 2016 riding mower.  While we, as Christ, are not under condemnation2 or any religious obligation,3 Christ in us contradicts what remains of Adam.  We have freedom to grow in the Father’s love, but Christ humbly serves others, loves those who mistreat him/her, and seeks the Father’s will and Kingdom above all else.  Seeing Christ as our identity and life is glorious, but thinking, speaking and walking according to that life isn’t always easy, and many never do.  It leads to suffering of various kinds, often through rejection or persecution from those stuck in religion who remain fearful, proud, and blind.  I have also found it takes desire, time and effort to learn to inwardly connect with and follow Christ instead of my old nature. While the way of Christ is full of challenges and even suffering, the glory of being manifested as a being of wisdom and light and love and peace and joy, just as Jesus was, outweighs any cost.

The truth is, you are not a “saved sinner.”  That is no longer your identity.  You are Christ!  It’s true!  I’m not saying you or I are the equal of Jesus, because we’re not, and never will be.  I’m saying we are individual members of Christ’s body,6 and together, we are the fullness of Christ on the earth.4  This makes Christ our identity, who we are, and God intended and accomplished this in JesusThis is a precious, glorious, amazing, sobering truth!  It’s not something to take and use selfishly, it’s something to rejoice in and submit to!  When Christ’s body realizes who and what it is, and connects with its head (Christ himself), we will again see the manifestation of Christ on the earth, just as we did 2,000 years ago in Jesus.  Perhaps the biggest limitation the church has had is identifying as “human” and “natural” and “sinful,”  which do not describe us, and never have. 

I understand this may sound heretical or crazy to some, and you are certainly free to disagree with me.  I’ll love you anyway.  However, I hope you won’t let offense or fear stop you from seeing the truth in the scriptures I quoted, and more importantly, from connecting with the truth of your inward being.  I don’t claim to know or fully live up to all of this, but I’m seeing it and growing in it.  If we can learn to silence our restless minds and let go of our own beliefs, allowing ourselves to simply be in God’s presence without agenda or distraction, humbly seeking His mind and His heart instead of validation of our own way, I believe some of these things will begin to make sense and the Spirit will reveal things that we couldn’t have seen on our own.  As 1 John 2:20, 27 says so plainly, you have no need for a man to teach you, but Christ, the anointing/spirit of God within you is your only teacher.  Trust and connect with Christ within you, and be taught there inwardly.7  You will find truth if you do.  Christ resides in you now, because that’s who you have been made to be.  What a gift!  God bless you.


  1. Romans 12:1-2, 6:11
  2. Romans 8:1
  3. Romans 13:8-10
  4. 1 John 4:17
  5. 2 Corinthians 5:21
  6. Romans 12:5, 1 Corinthians 6:15, 12:12, 27
  7. 1 John 2:20,27
  8. 1 Corinthians 15:45, 47



Leave a comment

Posted by on February 14, 2016 in Uncategorized


Tags: , , , , ,

Immortality Road

Going Out to the Sons and Daughters of God

New Mystic Mother

A Mother :: Falling Into the Hands of Grace :: The Journey

Entering the Promised Land

by walking in the Spirit

SEE withyour HEART

I am a citizen of heaven...Phil 3:20

Spiritual Abuse Sanctuary

Exposing Spiritual Abuse

The Straight Way Church Blog

Making the Way straight for the scattered Remnant of God

Sons Of Issachar

Understanding the times

Done with Religion

Living with God Outside the Walls of Religion

plucked out of the fire

Passionate about Christ being revealed in and through his people!

Ephesians 4

For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ.

My utmost 4 His garbage can

we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus. 2 Cor. 4:5

The Voice of One

To know and preach nothing but Christ....


Most would rather endure comfortable bondage, than experience uneasy freedom

Escape to Reality

Exploring the wide open spaces of God's amazing grace

Life of Yan ♥

My Name is Yanira Vargas. I am a Senior at Washington State University. I love all things expression and creative. I was in a relationship with my childhood best friend of 4 years, who happens to have had passed away with stage 3 brain cancer. I still believe in God, and in the beauty of mircles. Join me and embark on this journey with me.

The Matt Walsh Blog

Absolute Truths (and alpaca grooming tips)

Mystical Teachings of the Bible

Restoring the Spiritual Teachings encoded in our Sacred Texts